Untitled Problems

Untitled Problems

 Hehe! This may look like, how problem can be untitled, right? Whenever in what problem we are facing, there is a name for that problem. Any condition we criticized ourselves that we might have ever done. Doesn't that mean, we are too busy solving problems? While eating, we are thinking about, what we will eat tomorrow called a problem for tomorrow. Similarly, while eating food, some of us do not care for tomorrow and eat as enjoying the present and called a problem for today!

If we care for tomorrow, we do care now and causing problems for now, not feeling well to live present and willing to be tensed for future cause problems. And caring now, enjoying now will let you entered an unconditional pain for tomorrow. Life stuck in the middle for what to do and what not to do! This is what I termed called untitled problems. 

We are too adapted in such a dream that we forgot what's wrong we are doing. Criticize people if you know more, trying to insult others if you know more (like me), and often involve in such work that does mean nothing with your aim. I really do use to insult others with my knowledge I do have. Sometimes, I even insulted too due to being in anger and felt guilty later thinking about the matter I did before. 

Later, fallen in such a condition like insulting feeling comes from internal heart which sometimes I myself describe as a big criminal. Hurting becomes part of the success that I do know, but, do while engaging in the part of such a criminal like offense which starts feeling guilt on me!
There may be so many people like me who don't care for others and trying to immediate unknown things without thinking of others. And the condition where you can't be back again with what you did is an untitled problem. 

This untitled problem may not be as same as before, but atleast you can have a depth of making it better. Hehe! Yeah, there is not any formula to manage yourself to get relief from tension but, surely to do something better than before. Not the same but making better are better choices. Learned to be a better listener. Must stop to say anything before listening to everything. Should lead to know yourself by own conditions. Also must learn to think by others perspective. And think to reach higher honestly treating everyone equally. Pretending a looser can adapt to you more respective later. So, pretend you don't know anything in order to learn and respect your teacher! And learn to say sorry! That person whom you worry makes you more respect for that person. And earning respect is hard. But, sorry would make you a good friend while being in ego makes you deep in the enemy.

Sometimes caring ourselves would make you know what and how much uncomfort we are making for ourselves thinking we are planning for future comfort😂.  So,  I used to say, I do say and will always say, Love your enemies because nobody loves you more than your enemy. Love them back too!